Last week was my birthday and I turned 30. My birthday party had already been organized the week before, to combine it with another friend’s birthday. My friends had arranged a dj and we danced all night long in the Citadel, the local restaurant in the old city of Beit Sahour where we usually meet.
It has been really hectic for me in the past weeks. Both my housemates moved out and I started to realize that most of my contacts and friendships here do not have a long history and for that reason are usually a bit shallow. People come and go and you can’t really connect in that short time. And my Palestinian friends are wonderful and I love them a lot but they do not have the same background and reference. So I think I started to feel more and more disconnected and I miss my dear friends in Holland. It made me to decide to return back to Holland in July to spend the summer there and reflect on what I am going to do next. Though I am sure I will stay involved with Palestine and the Palestinians.
Besides my personal ‘crisis’ there is the current situation in Palestine, with the siege of Gaza, the phone calls from my friend Mohamed Omer who lives there and the worries, sadness and anger about how Israel manipulates the media and the world opinion about what they are actually doing there. There is much tension in the Westbank. Kids throwing stones at military jeeps or watch towers and then follows the tear gas and the rubber bullets. The attack on the Jewish orthodox school in Jerusalem on Thursday caused a lot of fear and therefore closures of checkpoints. Another attempt to arrest a Palestinian man in Bethlehem and the demolition of his house when they couldn’t catch him.
Last week Thursday we went to see a concert of the Palestinian rap group DAM. DAM consists of three Palestinians from an Arab village called Lod, which is inside Israel. Their lyrics often deal with the frustration of the occupation and the feeling of being second class in Israel. Palestinians who live in Israel face a lot of discrimination and have less opportunities and rights than Jewish Israelis. The concert was good and the atmosphere was great. But as the entrance fee was about 10 euros, it was only the middle and upper class that could attend…
This week I joined a trial for a youth training program in Beit Sahour. It is organized by the organisation Paidia International Development (www.pidev.org) They built a climbing tower on the edge of Beit Sahour with a lot of artificial grass around it, that will be the base for activities and games to teach children about communication, cooperation and leadership. Next week the first group of youth will come and start with the program and we joined the trial. It was a very nice and sunny day and even though it was artificial grass, we really enjoyed sitting and playing games on it! The games were really helpful in learning more about communication techniques and how to learn to work together as a group.
As I am giving workshops myself now for a Youth Participation Project, it was very interesting and I actually used some of the games for my own group!
The Youth Participation Project consist of three workshops in which youth learns both in theory and in practice about how to organize a project, which questions to ask, which steps to take and how to get organized, how to use your network etc. We talked about the obstacles that youth faces in organizing something and the main problems for them were money, lack of knowledge and experience and lack of network. So we started to think about solutions and how we can tackle these problems. They came up with many ideas and some of them we will implement next Friday. They organized a program in wich these three aspects will be ‘solved’. The program in the morning consists of a workshop about democratic decision making. For the afternoon they will invite representatives of different smaller organisations in Bethlehem to present themselves and to do some networking. Also they will bring some home made food and make a small benefit party in order to get some money. This way they will work on the knowledge, network and money issue!
And today is International Womens Day. This morning I joined a protest march in Bethlehem, organized by the different women groups. They had planned for a celebration with music, dabka dance and food, but because of the situation in Gaza they changed the schedule and we had a protest march and speeches near the Nativity Church, in front of the Peace Center. There were about 60 women, both muslims and christians and a handful of foreign women, like me.
Tonight in our Political Cafe we will have a talk by one of the organizers of this march. She works for the Women Media & Development Center. We will show two short documentary films made by women about women issues.
Women all around the world: unite!
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